http://pyreneeees.livejournal.com/ ([identity profile] pyreneeees.livejournal.com) wrote in [community profile] greatpoetry2011-11-04 11:56 am
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Request + Tony Hoagland

Request: My friend just got married, and she's having a difficult time with her new husband. I would love, love, LOVE your favorite poems about love/marriage being difficult, surviving bad times, hurting a lot, being real and not just fantasy. I'd be grateful!

Windchime
by Tony Hoagland

She goes out to hang the windchime
in her nightie and her work boots.
It’s six-thirty in the morning
and she’s standing on the plastic ice chest
tiptoe to reach the crossbeam of the porch,

windchime in her left hand,
hammer in her right, the nail
gripped tight between her teeth
but nothing happens next because
she’s trying to figure out
how to switch #1 with #3.

She must have been standing in the kitchen,
coffee in her hand, asleep,
when she heard it—the wind blowing
through the sound the windchime
wasn’t making
because it wasn’t there.

No one, including me, especially anymore believes
till death do us part,
but I can see what I would miss in leaving—
the way her ankles go into the work boots
as she stands upon the ice chest;
the problem scrunched into her forehead;
the little kissable mouth
with the nail in it.

[identity profile] pachamama.livejournal.com 2011-11-05 02:49 pm (UTC)(link)
Anti-Love Poem
by Grace Paley

Sometimes you don't want to love the person you love
you turn your face away from that face
whose eyes lips might make you give up anger
forget insult     steal sadness of not wanting
to love     turn away then turn away     at breakfast
in the evening     don't lift your eyes from the paper
to see that face in all its seriousness     a
sweetness of concentration     he holds his book
in his hand     the hard-knuckled winter wood-
scarred fingers     turn away     that's all you can
do     old as you are to save yourself     from love