Thanks for responding. Yes, I recognize that reading of the stanza, but the issue I have is that dying of AIDS could in any way be seen as a positive affirmation of self or lifestyle or choice. It wasn't. It was an insidious confusing horrific nightmare from which no one could escape with their lives. That is what is offensive to me. It feels simultanesouly trite and melodramatically symbolic.

I am trying NOT to dwell on this poem *heh* but I should look at it again so that I can put into exact words why it's so discouraging to me.