"How do I love you?" by Mary Oliver
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How do I love you?
How do I love you?
Oh, this way and that way.
Oh, happily. Perhaps
I may elaborate by
demonstration? Like
this, and
like this and
no more words now
How do I love you?
How do I love you?
Oh, this way and that way.
Oh, happily. Perhaps
I may elaborate by
demonstration? Like
this, and
like this and
no more words now
Look, the trees |
are turning |
their own bodies |
into pillars |
of light, |
are giving off the rich |
fragrance of cinnamon |
and fulfillment, |
the long tapers |
of cattails |
are bursting and floating away over |
the blue shoulders |
of the ponds, |
and every pond, |
no matter what its |
name is, is |
nameless now. |
Every year |
everything |
I have ever learned |
in my lifetime |
leads back to this: the fires |
and the black river of loss |
whose other side |
is salvation, |
whose meaning |
none of us will ever know. |
To live in this world |
you must be able |
to do three things: |
to love what is mortal; |
to hold it |
against your bones knowing |
your own life depends on it; |
and, when the time comes to let it |
go, |
to let it go. |
One summer
I went every morning
to the edge of a pond where
a huddle of just-hatched geese
would paddle to me
and clamber
up the marshy slope
and over my body,
peeping and staring—
such sweetness every day
which the grown ones watched,
for whatever reason,
serenely.
Not there, however, but here
is where the story begins.
Nature has many mysteries,
some of them severe.
Five of the young geese grew
heavy of chest and
bold of wing
while the sixth waited and waited
in its gauze-feathers, its body
that would not grow.
And then it was fall.
And this is what I think
everything is all about:
the way
I was glad
for those five and two
that flew away,
and the way I hold in my heart the wingless one
that had to stay.